Welcome ciacera! I know what you mean about hobbies. They seem to have flown away with the stork (sorry that was corny). I don't know how you ladies with two or more kiddos do it. I'm a moderator for the site, so just let me know if I can help in any way.
Here's a group that you might enjoy.
http://www.workitmom.com/group_toddlertalk