Hi and welcome to Work it, Mom! First, I can tell you're one busy lady with all those jobs, kids and pets! Second, I love the name of your business - Chaos Control is totally catchy and unforgettable!

Here are a few Work it, Mom! groups etc that might be of interest to you:
http://www.workitmom.com/group_entrepreneurmoms
http://www.workitmom.com/group_powerofone
http://www.workitmom.com/group_workitkids
http://www.workitmom.com/bloggers/36hourday/