What are some of your tips for helping kids with their homework?

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Alison  9th Dec 07
My 10 year old son struggles a lot with school. He squeaks by with mostly low-B's. He had speech and vision problems that went undiagnosed for too long and kept him from getting early language skills needed to succeed in school, and his interests tend to be outdoorsy/mechanical/art/performance-related, not book-related.

I have found that what works best for us is for him to work through his homework alone when he gets home from school, before the rest of the family is home from daycare and work. This gives him plenty of quiet time to think. After dinner, I check his homework and see what areas he has not understood. I re-teach the concept to him in a way he can understand -- usually my verbal explanation or pictoral illustration helps since he has trouble paying attention to his teacher and with reading comprehension. Once he "gets" the concept, I have him re-work his problems independently. We repeat the process until everything is correct. It's important to be patient and spend plenty of time on homework as needed. I can see the temptation to do the work for them when kids struggle because homework time takes sooo long, but I force myself through the long homework process because it's so important that he learns everything.
Homework is a challenge in our house for two reasons: 1) because we don't get home until about 6:30 at night and 2) because my children attend a Spanish Immersion Charter school. And I don't speak Spanish. Since they attend the after school daycare program they generally do their homework there. The benefit is of course that they then have Spanish speaking teachers available to them for assistance and of course, it is then done well before 7pm when they are EXHAUSTED.
Nydia  7th Dec 07
Lucas started kindergarten this year, so homework is still very "light". But every Friday (homework day), I sit with him on his desk, read the work's heading and watch him doing it. As many of it has coloring and drawing involved, I always say words of encouragement/compliments, and if he has doubts concerning numbers or letters (his fav challenge!), I try to help him without doing it for him instead.
DAWN  6th Dec 07
I like to make homework more down to earth (so to speak). So I use layman's terms when explaining that 4/100 means 4 out of every hundred people are ------ and so on. This gives them a better grasp on the concept and why they are doing this math.

I might say "if there were one hundred people standing in your room, only 4 of them would have psp's. Then they grasp the concept and understand it much better.
As with all HW, I am there to make sure they know I am interested and concerned. But I am great when it comes to explaining the concepts in any subject by using metaphors to help them uderstand and it works!!!
Daisy  4th Dec 07
I often do my "homework" when my teen is doing his -- that is, unless we both need the computer. Then, we work out a take-turns schedule so we both get done. If he has reading to do, I like to read with him. Either he reads aloud to me or vice versa, and we get to discuss the issues in the book. His latest was To Kill a Mockingbird, one of my all-time favorites. I enjoyed reading and discussing it with him.
mamajama  3rd Dec 07
One thing that my husband recommends (as a teacher) is that parents sit down to do their "homework" at the same time that the kids do. For example, sit down to balance your checkbook while the kiddos are working on math. It helps motivate them, and shows that there is a practical use for what they are learning.
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