I am starting to face the struggle of some time for me vs. spending time with my daughter. At 14 months, she is happy at her daycare with her friends. I have been blessed to spend lunch time with her. I am debating on continuing to see her or using that time for myself. I love spending time with her, and I could use some "me" time. Is it time to let go...Any thoughts!!!

Being able to connect with your child during the day is awesome... especially if like most of us, your evenings are busy and there isn't time for much quality! If you take hour lunches, you might consider spending half with your daughter and the other half doing something for you... sipping a coffee, going for a walk, reading a book, etc... Or dedicate your breaks throughout the day to YOU. Spending quiet time doing whatever it is you need to refresh yourself. It's amazing how restorative a 15 minute brisk walk can be... or locking yourself in your car and closing your eyes for a few minutes. You need to go with what you feel... not with what you think you should be doing. So, if you feel that you need/want lunches with her... continue that. If you feel that you need some time to yourself... take it and don't feel guilty about it. Good luck!

I would suggest a "compromise." Maybe you could eat with your daughter 2-3 times per week and spend the other 2-3 days doing something just for you. I know that I am a better mother and employee when I carve out some time for myself, it really recharges your batteries. This will give you both something to look forward to each week. If things go well, and your daughter adjusts well, you could always increase your "me" time. Good luck with your decision!