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Do you consider yourself religious? ”
Asked by The Work It, Mom! Team on 21st March 2008






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Flag as inappropriate Posted by Heather on 6th April 2008
And the concepts of heaven and hell are as transparent as used Neutrogena.
I am a good and moral woman but not because of any rewards or threats promised me.
I tried for several decades to believe in a supernatural God but my close examination of the Bible revealed that it is nothing less than a book of horrors, full of violence, cruelty, killings, slavery and misogyny written by semi-literate men.
I became convinced beyond any doubt whatsoever that belief in a supernatural savior was a crutch invented by primitive man to alleviate his fear of the unknown, of death. Religion only serves to hold humans back from even greater endeavors in this world.
I find it amazing and appalling that - in the 21st century - there are still people who believe in supernatural nonsense like heaven, hell, Jesus and God. It is so abundantly clear that this 2,000-year old myth perpetrated by a handful of semi-literate sheepherders in a book laughingly considered the Word Of God is total nonsense. It would be funny except for all the killing that has been done in the name of organized religion, all the harm that has been visited on men and women worldwide because of naive and stupid religious teachings about sex and all the pain caused daily by those who persecute gays in the name of God.
My mission as a modern, mature woman is to lend moral support to those rational human beings who are becoming aware that there's no bearded man in the sky writing down everything we do and there's nothing after death, period.
I believe that personal experience, conscience and reason should be the final authorities. I uphold the free search for truth. I believe people should be encouraged to think for themselves. I seek to act as a moral force in the world, believing that ethical living is the supreme witness of goodness, not a fear of hell or the promised reward of heaven. I dedicate my life to truth, reason and reality and resist with all my strength those who would take it away in the name of a supernatural god.
And, finally, be aware, those of you who are Christians: I do not hate you or anyone who believes anything that I do not.
I just know the truth and the truth has set me free.
::climbing down off her soap box:::
Kathryn
Flag as inappropriate Posted by Kathryn Cleve on 23rd March 2008
Oh and if you want you can copy/paste Florinda's second paragraph right here. I completely agree with what she said with the exception that I haven't ever been a regular churchgoer (or a churchgoer at all) and don't imagine I ever will be.
Flag as inappropriate Posted by KathyHowe on 23rd March 2008
I try very hard to be a faithful Christian & raise my son to be the same.
Flag as inappropriate Posted by Brandi on 22nd March 2008
I was not raised in a church-going or religious family as a child but, I always knew about Christ and attended diff't denominations of churches with friends and family. This gave me exposure to God in many diff't places. This influenced me to study the sociology of religion in college. It was very fascinating to learn the origin of God and the church. I also took Critical Thinking classes so I could understand the complexities of the proliferation of different doctrines and how religion packages itself to appeal to different people.
Personally, I had alot of challenges in my life growing up which called for the seeking of a "higher power" to deal with it all once I knew I couldn't handle it all by myself. That's when my own search for "God" began. I opened myself up to God and asked Him to reveal who he truly was to me. He led me to the passage in Matthew 5:6 that says, "Blessed are they which do hunger and thirst after righteousness: for they shall be filled." That changed my life forever.
My mother was more spiritual than religious as I grew up and taught me about Christ as she was raised in the Methodist Church. She distanced herself from church life b/c she didn't care for the hypocrisy of how some Christians lived their lives contrary to what was preached, so she didn't demand a relligious lifestyle for me and my sister. Instead she introduced us to her spiritual beliefs that helped us to appreciate God in everything around us. I also read alot of books about spirituality and agreed with alot of its concepts as I'm currently reading Eckhart Tolle's book, "A New Earth" and follow Oprah's weekly online classes. But it leaves me with more questions when I try to incorporate it with my religious beliefs.
When I was fifteen I decided to "get saved" and then I rededicated my life to Christ when I was 33yrs old and was also baptized in a wonderful Baptist church after having a "religious-spiritual awakening" during a very difficult time in my life. God has done amazing things in my life like curing my daughter of a rare immune disease, and answering my prayers for marriage that makes it hard for me to deny his sovereign power and the teachings of the bible. Let's just say...God on His own has made me a believer! But, the jury is still out for me whether I believe I'm "religious" b/c that word means something different to diff't people. A more stricter way of approaching life - which works for some, and not others.
For me, I follow the tenets of my church and the biblical teaching for Christian life. My children also went to a private Christian school for over 4 years and I took them out b/c people didn't always practiced what they preached. They also attended Awana and have been baptized. My husband is a devout Catholic and we share faiths with our children. So we're all over the place, but I feel it's all in the true name of Jesus that we worship - so it has to be all good, right? :)
God is the center of our lives, not ritualistic doctrine, totems, or inflexible theology. We pray together as a family everyday and my husband and I pray together. I can attest to some absolutely wonderful things God has done for us as a family so I guess you can say a mix of religious worship and spiritual principles is what works for us. Overall, it's what you're comfortable with as long as you know you are following along with God's biblical law and asking him for purpose and direction for your life.
I believe in this, "Delight yourself in the Lord and he shall give you the desires of your heart (Psalm 37.4) So, a mix of spirituality and religion works for us. I keep my focus on the Lord and try to live a loving life. It brings me great peace even in the midst of great challenges.
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Flag as inappropriate Posted by Chrissy Johnson on 21st March 2008
I find religion and spirituality fascinating topics for reading and study, but I don't practice them in any organized way. I have too many issues with institutional religion, and the way that many "religious" people seem to confine that to their church and not truly live it, and I haven't sorted through them enough to go back to a church at this point. I just try to live in a moral and caring way.
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