What advice would you give to a close family/friend who just called and told you their teenage (high schooler) daughter was pregnant and they didn't know what to do? You've known the girl since birth. Would you give advice based on your own personal, moral, religious, or political beliefs or would you taylor it to theirs? Be honest.

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I'd just be there to support them. If they genuinely wanted to find out what I thought about the situation and teen pregnancy, I'd tell them. Otherwise, I'd just let them figure it out. Each situation is different. Either way, I would never tailor the advice to their beliefs, even if it was asked for. I would never give advice that I, personally, would not be comfortable in taking.
I don't think I'd have advice to give, just support no matter what she decides to do...
Kate  9th Apr
i dont know if i would really offer advice... but more support and perhaps help them gather information on various options. I think the most important thing is to let your friend know you wont judge either of them and you will love them no matter what conclusion they come to as a family..
I had to have this situation in my life just recently. My Daughter, who was 19, in school. got pregnant. We had Long talks and went over the Facts, not just based on religion, or medical, or financial. but we looked deep at the whole! picture.
I am now BLessed with a Beautiful Granddaughter and a more respectful and loving daughter! They live with me and life is good.
I would have supported her decision, no matter what she made.
Mia  8th Apr
I would give my advice based on my feelings especially if I mean well , its up to them to sort out if it jives with their own belief system or if they will actually heed my advice.
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