Being my business is growing fast I am in need of more time spent in the office. My husband is spoiled and complains when he has to babysit as he says the kids on a Saturday. The thought of a stranger creeps me out whatching my children. I am thinking of having my mother move in to become super nanna. Do you think this is a good choice?

I think, that if you had a heart to heart with your hubby, calmly explain to him that he needs to do his share of parenting (not babysitting) and accept it, enjoy it and embrace it- and also explain to him that you need your dreams and most importantly you need his support and help to reach those dreams. You want him to be a part of those dreams and you will be a better wife and mom if you do. You don't want to end up resenting him for not helping you and not reaching your goals, and for making your life a crazy stressful mess. Use good words, good communication. The sandwich method: start with nice words, say what you have to say, end with nice words. As for super nanna, as much as you love your mom and would love her help, I would say don't go there. If it ends up causing tension at home, you wouldn't want your mom to hear it/be in the middle of it. I think you and your hubby should talk it out and I bet you could come to an arrangement on your own.
peace,
earthmama

Your husband thinks of his role with his child as BABYSITTING?!?! Oh dear. You have bigger problems than trying to figure out if your mother should move in or not. I have a word for your husband and it isn't "spoiled". I'm with Evansmom...blood is boiling. Good luck. I fear you need it.

Stuff like this gets my blood boiling. You husband needs to get over it, plain and simple. Does he want your income coming in or not. Last time I checked a marriage was supposed to be a partnership. Having your mom move in seems crazy to me, unless you have an in-law suite. Sorry for being so blunt, but it really gets me going to hear women taking all the burden of being a parent on themselves.