Do you socialize with work colleagues on weekends?

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I have worked at ad agencies most of my career, so the young singles always hung out a lot after work and would even take weekend trips together in some cases. It's probably not a coincidence that I'm married to a former co-worker! LOL Now however, I don't really socialize with work people. For one, we don't live near the office, so there isn't commonality of where we live in most cases. Also, we just don't go out as much now that we are married with a child. So, our friends on weekends tend to be people in similar life situations as we are, or our neighbors.
With this job, I have not, but with past jobs I have.
Kate  19th Apr
if i have a true 'friend' at work then yes! Actually since i moved to this city after graduating from college - all of my friends i either met through work or I am related to! haha! And one friend i met through my framily (her dad and my aunt worked together for like 20+ years). Generally though, i only socialize on weekends with one person i work with who i also consider a friend. However, all my other friends USED to be co-workers and we just became much better friends after we stopped working together.
As a general rule, I don't spend my week-end with "some colleagues". I usually spend my free time with the people I care about a lot -- they usually fall under one of these 2 categories: family or friends. Sometimes, I spend time with people that I have something important in common with, and as a result, there is a good chance we become friends. The thing is that I made some really good friends at work ... but then I started to call them "friends" not "colleagues".
Nope, I don't have time to. Besides, all but 1 of my co-workers are married and most have families of their own, so they're busy in their own right. The one single, a divorced guy in his mid-50s, is generally involved with hsi kids. On occassion, I've asked him for help on something when my hubby can't do it and isn't available. Considering that he's borrowed some of our toos (i.e. a post hole digger and other things), I think it's a fair trade . But as far as socalizing, nobody's got time.
DebR  19th Apr
Nope!
I see those people all week!
No need to see them on the weekends.
Unless there is a work function or some huge event, like a wedding.

My favorite line to one of my girlfriends is.......
People you work with arent your friends.
You can be friendly, you can eat lunch each day together, you can even email all the time and have tons of inside jokes, but....... they are not your friends. Not REAL friends.
Just coworker friends.

When I was single all of my friends were my coworkers, as we get older that changes.
She was a coworker of mine.!! hahaah

Finding a REAL friend at work is a huge gift.
If you find one,you are very lucky.
Over the years, I have found maybe one at each place I have worked.

This is just MY experience.,
;)
olive  19th Apr
Occasionally. I think I would more if I lived closer to where I worked. When I was single, all my close friends were work colleagues. Now that you brought it up, it is really interesting to think about all that has changed since then.
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