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I'm just curious to see how many of you guys play with your kids? When I say play, I mean really get down and play on their level on a regular basis. Whenever we go to kiddie places, we seem to be the only ones and this makes me sad. So I want to hear from all the people that play with their kids!

Asked by oceans mom, 7th May Answer this now »
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I'm so glad to see all of these people playing with their kids!! I crawl around after my son and tickle him. THen he stands in his crib and sqeals and I sqeal back, which gets him crazy excited and he starts sqealing more and laughing hysterically. We go to the pool or park and he splashes and/or swings. Of course, he's only 8 months so this is about all we can do. He's not really into most toys yet but he sure has a good time knowing that I'm joining in what he likes to do!
Yes, my son is 22 months old and can now play. It is so great to follow his lead and participate in the activities he is interested in. This is time with him, whether it is reading, cuddling, hide and seek, playing with legos, or running down hills. I've learned that it is healthy for me to take this time away. I am learning to organize my time so that I can only focus on us. Sometimes it takes me a while to shut my brain off from the endless "to do" list. But I find that when I do, it is time that is priceless.
I always played with my kids, down to their level...I taught them how to throw a football actually. Now that I'm a grandma of a very active 10 year old, I have learned how to play transformers, the Wii, we play pirates and so much more. I have also taught him to make cookies, and pretend to drive to Mexico for a day, and made it feel like a wonderful week-long action-packed vacation. We had the best time, got post cards, souvenirs and so much more. I'm 53 and I still play Matchbox cars with him too. I love it and wouldn't trade this time in my life for ANYTHING.
Daisy  11th May
As they get older, this becomes even more fun. My husband taught our son to play cribbage, and now they both play better than I do. We pack the board on vacations. Simple card games are a life skill.
DebR  9th May
I play with them each morning before work. Cars, blocks or superheroes.
And also play with them from 6-8 after work.
baseball, soccor, ball, whatever. Chalk, blocks etc. or reading.
Hubby does more physical stuff, like wrestle, and sports outside.
He goes in all the play areas with them.
I stay to the side at those playgyms and supervise. Someone is always crying at some point.
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Yes! My 3-year-old asked me recently if I was really a grown up and, when my 12-year-old was 3, she had asked the same thing. That's one of my favorite parenting memories...
That's been one of my goals for awhile, although it is hard to stop multitasking. When I actually do it, though, it gives me so much joy it makes me wonder why I ever thought to put it off so I could do dishes or watch Oprah (no offense, Big O...).
Lee  8th May
I play, but sometimes begrudgingly. I have to agree with Nataly that it's sometimes really HARD to make myself stop getting dinner ready, or cleaning up just one more thing, to play with my 3-yr-old. I don't feel very creative or interested in the department of "bad guys vs. Ninja Turtles" action-adventure. Sigh. But this question -- and your answers -- are a good reminder that it's IMPORTANT. I'm going to try to do better. :)
We play -- on the floor, outdoors, at the kitchen table -- every day. Of course, it helps that I'm one of those silly people who never stopped believing that certain toys are "real", so I'm confident the toys enjoy being played with as much as my son and I enjoy playing with them.

I'm really lousy at making truck sounds, though.
That's awesome! I love to hear it! Like Lorena said, it's good to be a kid again!
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